Subscribe RSS FeedWhen I first starting dating my bf he was involved with the yahoo personals and had a membership, this was a couple of years ago, well he said he is no longer a member and I believed him until the other day I was cleaning our house and looked at his credit card statement that was left on the counter, I saw the charge for this dating service and he is still enrolled. He said he wasn’t and he knows he is not being charged because he checks his statement like a hawk, he said this before he knew I knew. Now he is denying it and mad at me for looking but I Is this lie acceptable? What does this mean. I know it is not right to look at his statement but thats beside the point now because he lied and now I know
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I wouldn’t worry about it
GUYS ARE STUPID…he probably forgot he had one, or thought he deleted it when he didn’t…I’m sure he doesn’t have it to find someone behind your back.
Get rid of him.
If he lied about it he obviously wants a little something something without you Knowing.
If your partner is lying to you, it’s not worth sticking around with him.
Well if you don’t have any reason for not trusting him and you believe that he isn’t cheating on you then you should forgive him.
If he was billed recently, he’s obviously actively seeking someone else. Time to have ‘that’ conversation with him…
hahaa
get a new man..he’s not worth your time hun
tell him to just come clean. ask for his account info and if he will not give it to you then it is a bad sign.
wow, if he’s still enrolled after a few years! that’s a red flag my dear. Start looking for other signs that he’s cheating on you or looking to get out of the relationship. Sorry hun.
if he has to go online for dating and you’re with him, that’s a problem. let him go and tell him to date the person on line.
i disagree,he kbew what he was doing all along and he would cheat if given the chance to get away with it…
Sounds fishy! I don’t know if I would trust him.
Well, he may be looking for something better. Some guys are never satisfied.
And if he’s lying to you, he’s probably not worth it.
He could be telling the truth. Maybe he is being charged even tho he doesn’t use there services anymore
he could have an online girlfriend,
if he does that’s technically cheating on you…
i personally wouldnt ever accept that.
ecspecially a lie, and now he’s mad that u looked cuz he never wanted you too see it, sooo hes mad. he obviously has a membership still, and i wouldn’t put up with it if i were you …!
DUMBBB HIMMM
Unless you are married he does not have to be faithful to you even then he does not have to. SOooooooooo. leave well enough alone and do not ask him about it, if he is a lying cheating snake and you are not afraid of snakes stay were you are, with a lying looser.
Trust in a relationship is extremely important. You need to decide if your trust has been crushed or if you two can talk about and resolve the issue.
try to talk to him about it. say its important to u.
What is a relationship without trust?
NOTHING!!!
Get him out of your life…
He probably forgot to fully cancel his memebership, and didn’t realize that he was being charged, or is trying to get his money back because they didn’t process his cancellation correctly.
You need to stop snooping and learn to trust him. Your lack of trust will ruin this relationship faster than any online account will.
hmmmmmm well talk to him and see what he has to say and then try to figure out yourself what you will do coz people may give an answer and u do it and it may turn out to be the wrong one soo baiclly all i can say is its up to u darling not anyone else xxxx
Why were you looking at his credit card statement?
i like rogers answer. short sweet and to the point. if he lied about something small like that….. who knows what else hes lying about.
If the credit card statement is a current one, your suspicions have been confirmed.
It’s possible that he may be “keeping his options open” in case it doesn’t work out between you.You mentioned that you were his gf not his finacee..
Dear Maizy,
What other un-truths does he have in his closet. He needs to come clean with you if he in anyway is trying to earn your trust. You need to ask him flat out to come clean.
If you want to talk more, contact me.
Anthony
Honesty is important in a relationship. If you can’t trust him, maybe you shouldn’t be in a relationship.
Sorry sweetie
Snooping around means you had suspicion of this going on. Don’t be mad when you make a bad decision based on love and not reality. COME ON! You knew this was going on. Only bad thing is that you should have gone with what you felt and your suspicions. Too late now.
Other side is… no other side, just free him up to do this to someone else!!!
if he was angry about you looking, he was trying to hide it.
which means he lied
which means he is, or is trying to cheat.
If he watches his expenses “like a hawk” then he would have known about the charge.
I know many guys who use online personals to meet random women and hook up. I know it’s probably not what you want to hear.
Sounds like he’s cheating or has the intentions of cheating. I’m sorry.
He’s cheating, or a least interested in cheating.
what an a hole please just dont call him boyfreind anymore dont give him what he does NOT deserve.. text him now and tell him ITS OVER omg girl please
just break up with him not sweetie. I’ve been through the same thing with my ex if he lies once about something online HE WILL DO IT AGAIN.
he could have never unsubscribed, he could be looking at other women…talk to him about it and don’t assume anything. if he lies, consider breaking up.
Honey you know the truth, why would he get mad?? Because he lied and is still lieing, some guys are just not trustworthy
No lie is acceptable. If you accept it it tells him he can get away with it again and make excuses. Don’t feel sorry for looking. You are living together and sharing a life and it was there. HE is the one that lied…YOU DID NOTHING WRONG…HE DID! Don’t let him turn it around on you. You were not the dishonest one there.
He expects you to clean the house..then he should put his stuff away if he doesn’t want you to see it. That aside…he lied….a lie is a lie…no white and no little lie…a lie is a lie…
He watches his account like a hawk? HE KNOWS he is lying..that is why he is mad.
unacceptable. a man who isn’t looking for something on the side wouldn’t still have an online personals account that he has to pay for. and if he wasn’t doing something he wasn’t supposed to be doing, he be trying to reassure you that it’s you that he loves, rather than trying to distract you by being angry with you for finding it.
dump the asshole and move on.
Guys always get mad when they’re confronted or caught in a lie. So what you found out, he shouldn’t have that account and none of that would of happened if he was just man enough to tell you the truth. A guy isn’t going to pay for a dating account if he isn’t using him. He cannot be trusted, watch him for a bit, he could be cheating or looking to. You might want to consider dropping him. Lies are a horrible thing to have in a relationship, you truly have no relationship without trust.
Im a guy. Using girlfriends name. I lied about having an account like that too to my girlfriend. I got mad at her too. And yes, I waas cheating on her all the time. Its pretty obvious he is too, or at least wants to if given the chance
sounds like hes playing you and he knows that youll stay around..&&that hes looking for a new mate or he wants you as the back up and someone else
I hate to say this, but he really does just seem like a jerk who’s tryin to get some with some neither of you know behind your back. I’m not saying dump him… just keep a good eye on him…
Well he told you he deleted it or removed the service because he didnt want you to know that he still had it obviously. And apparently he felt safe with continuing on with it simply because you didnt check his statements. My question would be why would he do that if he was happy with you in the first place? Is he still looking? Is he unsatisfied? You mentioned that you have been dating for a few years. It sounds like you are in this for the commitment and the fun of the relationship because you are clearly hurt by this. That leaves one to think, is he is this for the same reasons as you or something different altogether. Also, he is mad at you now that you have check his statement, this is warranted yes, anyone would be upset, but you also have to think is there more to it than that? Is there more than a credit card statement that he is hiding from you. It is probably a good idea that you get everything out in the open, resolve any trust issues, and start fresh again.
Well there are a few possibilities, but I wouldnt take any hasty actions yet because you aren’t sure. One is that he simply forgot about it or thought he had cancelled it, and he truly is innocent, and maybe not so keen as a hawk with his bank statement as you think. Another possibility is that he is a lying bastard who has been using the dating system behind your back. If you are to have a successful relationship, then you guys should be extremely open, and if you guys can’t just talk this issue out, then something is wrong. Simply talk to the guy and see what is up, maybe there is some simple and logical explanation that will excuse him, and maybe there is one that will incriminate him. You’ll have to judge.
obviously he’s creeping behind ur back, and he’s a bad liar don’t be the loser in this situation and get what u deserve…BETTER! FAITHFUL!
Just let it go. You couldn’t help yourself but look at his credit card statement. Soon he’ll think your paranoid and could dump you…over an old dating account. Is it really worth it?
Either he wants to play the field and keep you around just in case there’s nothing out there, or maybe he’s scared of the commitment. If you two have been together for years, maybe he’s trying to have a little fun. MAKE HIM STOP. Show him how much fun you can be
This is an issue you should analyze very deeply. Think about it, he might have forgotten that he was part of that, or he might have lied to you. You should better have a talk with him and ask him what’s going on. If he really lied to you it’s not worth to continue with him because he can be doing the same with other things. You have to be respected and if someone is not respecting you it would be better to forget about him.
i caught mine too. he said it was nothing and i made him delete his profile right in front of me. it’s still not ok, because they are doing it for a reason. something is “empty” and he’s trying to fulfill it.
ditch him. if he is paying for a personals account, what is he doing when you guys aren’t together.
and if he was watching his account like a hawk, then he would not have a charge on there from them if he is not using them.
Who cares if you looked at it anyway. you are his gf, and you have been for awhile, so there should not be any secrets between the two of you.
No, this not an acceptable lie. an acceptable lie would be that he bought milk, but didn’t because he forgot. ..
just my opinon, sounds like your relationship needs a re-evalutation.
talk to him about what he is looking for on those sites.